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Why do things always have to go this way?? I mean, I know its life, but it doesn't have to be like this all the time right?? Why do things get worse when we don't try to settle it, or why does it have to be this way when we try to do the right thing?? I always tell myself to not think too much and to just leave it to God coz He's the only One who knows what to do about it....and I always tell my friends that too, but sometimes even I cant control myself but made the wrong choice. Life may not be what it seems to be, like some people may think that life is all about having fun to the max or not just care much about anything...but what some of them may never know its that life can be really hard at times and its not what you think it is. In life, you would require to go through many obstacles, until, probably the day you die. I've come across people who never really care much about their life. They just do whatever they want and sometimes, not even thinking about the consequences, and when things start to go the other way, they grumble and complain and so on. See, humans cant stop learning. As each new day comes, they are, or probably learning new things, some of which is the most important things in life. Humans can be quite foolish and stubborn sometimes, but what can you say or do about it?? They're HUMANS right?? They have a choice, whether its right or wrong they still have the right to make a choice. Thats why God made us and He gave each and every one of us a free will, we can either choose to follow Him or to not follow Him, but in the end, you'll have to bear the consequences. So, why do you still wanna make the wrong choice?? You've already know that the consequences are like that, why do you still want to be stubborn and make the wrong decision?? It wont do you any good, in fact, it'll ruin your life, not until you know how to make the right choice. Humans often depend on each other, and if you know how to go to the right person, it wont be a bad choice, but if you go to the wrong person, it wont be a good choice either. So, whenever we want to do something or say something, make sure you think properly before you do or say it, coz you might never know whats gonna happen after you've done or say it, but at least if you think properly, things might not go as worse as you think it will be, or at least it wont be as bad as when you've did or say the wrong thing. Somehow or rather people will come to understand that they're wrong and should've listen to you. But oh well, sometimes people are just too stubborn to go and bother about all this, but hey, at least you know you've did the right thing. You're not trying to make things worse, you're just trying to help and hoping that things wont go as bad as some people think it might, although through the process, there might be some hurts and pains. But its life isnt it?? You would have to make some sacrifices sometimes in order to make things right. You wouldnt want to make it worse, dont you?? Try asking yourself this questions, "What is life without pain? What is life without making any sacrifices once in awhile? What is life without hope? What is life without failing?" Then its not call life anymore. There is no one whose life is perfect, except Jesus of coz. Throughout life you'll make mistakes, you'll fail and felt like you have no hope. But why cant you just be positive about it?? So what if you fail?? Get up and try again until you succeed, and of coz there's always hope. Hope for the good, not for the bad. Life can be tough, but if you want to make it easier, you can. It all depends on how you handle things or how you look at things the way they are. It dont have to be very bad or with much hurt. Its just really simple. It all depends on you. The choice is in your hands. There's this phrase that goes something like this, "The greatest glory is not in never failing, but in rising everytime you fall/fail." Its one of the phrase that keeps me going whenever I fail. But hey, who on earth never fails??(besides Jesus) Life dont have to be this way unless you think its like that. Just look(or think) over the bright side of things whenever it happens. Life dont need to be miserable, just ponder about the things that make you happy or whatever that can make you not think about life being so miserable. Its just that simple(but some people have to made it sound like its a big deal). For example like LOVE. Its also just really simple. Havent you heard of LOVE conquers all things?? Of coz, it also depends on how you think of it as it is. There can be love in the family, friends, etc. Not just in between couples or whatever. But the greatest love of all is Jesus. Its all just so so so simple, but some people just have to go make it sound complicated by making up stories which can be quite confusing sometimes. Don't you think its stupid when actually everything is just so simple?? You wont get confused too. And better make sure you dont get confused about it and make sure that you know whats going on and what to do. Ask for help( preferably someone older than you) when you think its kinda confusing. Don't try to settle it alone(you can, but) sometimes it'll make things worse. So yea, its all up to you to make that choice. No one can make that choice for you, they can only give advises or their opinions, but in the end its all up to YOU.

~tHe EnD~